Okay, so I found this link in another thread on this board. Genius is all I can say.

http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

It really opened my eyes about what I've been doing. I thought I was detaching, but it was only a half-hearted attempt. I will keep referring back to this page and the others on this site, as they do a great job of identifying where I've been falling down on the DB job.


Without change, there would be no butterflies.