APOLOGY...FIRST DRAFT Changes in red Also I will hand write the note.
Wife... First, I want to apologize for how I handled myself on Sunday. Truth is, I was shocked at the truth of the situation when it was revealed and my suspicion turned into fact. I spoke and acted out of pure feeling in the moment. Upon reflection, I realize how my words and actions when I am in crisis have hurt you now, and in the past,and for that I am truly sorry. I truly regret that my words and actions pushed you away. I used some harsh words that were strong, judgmental and reactionary. Clearly if I had used some time to process my thoughts and feelings first, like I have done now, I would have handled things much differently. I realize now how acting in the moment, instead of stepping back and thinking first, and then responding has lead to poor decisions on my part. I am not apologizing for having the feelings that I feel though, they are genuine. I guess what I have learned is that, I have to speak and act from my brain and not from my heart. So, from here on forward, I will do my best to step back, process my thoughts and feelings and respond after considering things much more carefully.
Will you please accept my apology?
Any suggestions?
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011
