you are not listening to the words on these threads...
If you have something to apologize for, DO IT...
why on earth would YOU wait for her to make the first move? ...you might be waiting a long time.... (Why DB at all if she isn't first?) .Your friend is a scorekeeper, but that doesn't work in love or marriage...
If you hit her in the face for the affair, you think you don't need to apologize b/c she didn't apologize for the affair first?
Maybe she thinks you pushed her into the arms of OM &
that hurt her feelings
so YOU should apologize to her for THAT!...FIRST!!
Then you'll want her to apologize to YOU
for "making you" work so hard that you ignored her & were irritable
or whatever you blame her for and whichever came first
and who is "ahead" on the scorekeeping...[b]see how this goes round & round? [/b]
Enough. Stop waiting for her to do/feel/say something to show you the way.
Make a choice of your own, regardless of what SHE says or does...forever!
your paralysis by analysis is UNappealing and UNhelpful. You have to read these posts and take them to heart and WORK THEM and
THINK out the activities. If you are feeling lonely (which is NOT the same as missing HER)
you go see a comedy or action flick.
Why would you and a buddy see a romantic chick flick?
(IF you go to Vegas, don't hang out at the chapels, go to the shows or the slots.)
You can do better than this Johnnie. Really you can. You deserve to do better.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
