Now don't laugh everyone, but I think I might be starting to understand this whole DB concept.
I think just because you said that it gave me a much needed chuckle. So thanks!
Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl
I've been thinking a lot about my conversation with my B last night, and it has cleared up so many things for me.
Sounds like it was a productive conversation. Hopefully, you have him drinking the DB Kool-Aid.
Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl
I read something on here and I can't remember if it was an archive or an active thread so please forgive me, but the poster said that the first decision she decided to make was to not make any major decisions for a year. I think that is a great idea, and I am going to do that also.
I think Mort Fertel also says to do this. I think it's a good game plan. In the grand scheme of things, a year is not that long of a period of time.
Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl
I figure that besides my relationship with my kids, this is the biggest relationship I have and I owe it to myself to really process everything before I decide to let go. I've often jumped the gun and have made decisions quickly only to regret them later, and I want to avoid that.
You remind me a bit of W in this regard - in terms of making the quick decisions only to have regrets later. How often have you made a quick decision you felt was a good one? This is a big decision. Take your time.
