Well starsky,

I had a phone conversation with my wife today. I told her that before i pick her up for her visit tomorrow she needed to clarify which option she was choosing.

If its option #1 then she is on her home until she moves back into the house. At which point I will drive her to any of the kids functions and family gatherings etc. But not until she was living here.

If its option #2, then she needs to move home right away, if she is truley interested in working on our marriage and piecing it back together then she can stick to that decision now, not stretch it out for a couple of weeks.

I have been used by her all along, i see it and i know it happens, yet i still allow her to do it.

Thanks for the sound advice, i am sticking to my guns and i will keep everyone posted.


M-34, W-33
SS14, SS13, S8, D6