You guys have had 3 hour talks on the phone, which you say isn't unusual for your past AND
it leads to rehashing a lot, and old choreographed arguments...so, what's so new about any of this, that matters?
Yes! This is the pattern during your whole S and now D. It didn't stop the D from happening, so what's to lose? Pull back!
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
But when you are detached, sure seems to get her attention...I think she wants a decent r with you. Okay...
Yes, NC drove her nuts! She kept texting and calling until she got in touch with you. So, why not try this? Make her work for it! Make yourself less available. AND when you do finally pick up or respond, NO R TALK! Break the cycle 2step.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
