I cannot see advantage to her not seeing your d, even if it's sporadic. Why? B/c having a part time step mom who says she cares,
is way better than having an AWOL biological mom AND an AWOL step mom "not allowed" contact...it's the lesser of 2 evils...
BUT what else has changed? Nothing.
You guys have had 3 hour talks on the phone, which you say isn't unusaul for your past AND
it leads to rehashing a lot, and old choreographed arguments...so, what's so new about any of this, that matters?
I don't see what the big deal is. There are no ACTIONS that suggest a recon is really on her mind and heart
and you are not as detached as you need to be to assess the situation well. IMO. But when you are detached, sure seems to get her attention...I think she wants a decent r with you. Okay...that's nice. So
why do you need to "do" anything about this?
IF AND WHEN MORE ACTUALLY HAPPENS...THEN cross that bridge...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016