WAW, and a bisexual open marriage part 3

[25yearsmlc]

when you speak of wanting to

"make her feel x" so that she won't "do" or "feel" a certain way

you are simply discussing how YOU can change HER.

You want her to behave differently,

and at some level you know that's not going to work,

and it's not the focus you need.

The focus you need is on why YOU interact the way YOU two do

and to accept that you cannot change her.

Then,

deal with the reality of what that probably means for the rest of your life.