[[b]life without her might NOT be all bad at all....
i'm ready for some more thoughts.
I agree with 25 quite a bit, but I would also add that your life will never be without her. She is the mother of your children and you will have to have some kind of relationship.
So regardless of the outcome it still is in you and your kids best interest to get her the help she needs. (you know this)
Also, a word of caution. I was looking at your situation and it seems about this same time last year your W also had a change of heart and wanted to come home. Obviously, not to the same extreme.
you said at the time:
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"Bottom line for me is that I know that my w was and still is not well. She needs to continue to work on herself and to get meds.
I would revisit that and figure how how to handle it differently as part of the process. What can be different this time?
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
