My experience has been that sometime when they"feel" that you have accepted their choices....it helps them to feel a bit more comfortable approaching and dealing with you.
IMO, that is all it is.
That said, when you stop looking at her, stop trying to read every interaction, hang on every word and every look.....you will really begin to heal.
Finally you said that not much has changed and that is why you have not posted.
Are only going to post changes in and/or about her OR are you....no...no...better yet when are you going to start posting about changes in you? What feelings are you having? What are you learning aboutyourself? What fears are you facing? What goals are you working forwards (beside the job search).....focus on you tad.....stop checking her temp, stop trying to look for a sign. You will now when and if she moves toward you.
Oh.....and one more thing.....
Stop thinking that something you do will snap her as* out of it. Let go Tad
It's scary.....
It hurts.....
It seems counterproductive.....
It may feel like you are giving up.....
It may feel like you have lost.....lost her.....
Chances are that she will pull away...then forward...then away.....
Guess what.....
Becoming the man you have always wanted to be ....
Will set you free....and will set her free....
When that happens....
Well....anything can happen at that point....cause you are both Free...
Free from the past....free from the pain....free to learn who you are.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
