7 weeks to exH marries OW

[lea74]

So had some interactions with xH today - very annoying. He has withdrawn his offer to purchase our sons school shoes as he says I didnt say thank you to the text that he sent me with the offer. Absolutely riduculous - I dont recall not replying to the text re the shoes, but that is besides the point. How can he offer to help out with my sons school uniform next year and then when I dont react or behave exactly as he expects me to, he withdraws the offer.

It is really pathetic - if you offer to do something for your kids then do it, regardless of what the adult does.

I really have to learn to not let him push my buttons. I keep feeling that the only to move forward is to just ignore that he exists. We do not co-parent and never will. He doesnt actually live in the country most of the time anyway and I do everything with regards to our sons anyway. I know it is not ideal, but unfortunately xH believes that the OW (even though they arent married yet) is another parent and that she should be included in all the parenting decicions and that the three of us should parent my sons. (Maybe this is called tri-parenting).