I don't mean to be a wet blanket. But I'm not "excited" for you nearly as much as I'm worried.
You have a volatile situation with a crazy OM, whom your w invited into your family's life... And only when you dated OW, did she make her move.
Her questions about OW are rapidly getting old to ME...oh the irony. Speaking of her move "towards" you...
The move she chose to make was wild, dramatic, and involved violence. She's not well.
Tread lightly my friend, very lightly. Make no assumptions!
I don't care what she SAYS TODAY...OR TOMORROW...I care about
how she acts in 6 months and 6 years...etc.
sorry, but I think you have a LONG TOUGH road of piecing ahead of you and that's
even if she weren't sick. But she is sick. So it's longer and tougher. She'll have to have a PLAN of treatment that she takes seriously.
Look how much damage her "issues" have done. (I'm purposely refraining from saying "illness" til you are ready to say it like that)
And it could have led to more serious injury or worse...literally...
You have children to protect. They have to come first, 9.
Even if it means you not being with her, if she's having an episode again, or draws dangerous people into their lives again.
You have the resources you lacked before. Let's hope that's enough.
Sending you positives!! ((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
