Glad you read up on the books, 180's and LRT.

Did you read the parts where pressure doesn't work well for you?

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One friend said I should try the water on a stone technique and leave a note or gift for her on her doorstep once a week for a few months.


IF this is a 180? Maybe.

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Others say it's over and try to move on.


Not yet.

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My gut says go over there with a ring, get on my knees and tell her I've been a fool and that I want to spend the rest of my life with her


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-- although I tried TELLING her that right after the breakup to no avail.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet