My STBX did not have a soft place. He packed his stuff in under 2 hours and was gone. He said he intended to drive until he had to refuel, instead he stopped in a nearby town where an associate of his lives and was offered a place to stay on the spot as this associate was very worried about my STBX. He stayed there 4 months.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.