Stop the Coaster, I want OFF!

[ninelives]

I had a lengthy talk with my W this morning, and we joked about things, kept things light for the most part.

She is concerned about the town finding out about this and is very concerned about her reputation. She is also concerned about him and what he is going through. I guess that is normal and I cant begrudge her for that but I also , I think, keep reminding her that he almost put her in the hospital yesterday and that he doesnt deserve too much sympathy.

She is still afraid that I cant accept what has happened and we did talk about all the changes in ME , thanks to this site. She knows that I will do my best IF we can get back together. She is afraid for alot of things but that to is normal.

WE are going to go to the city today with the boys and watch a movie and then go out for dinner. Like we used to as a family.

I think it will be good for us. The boys are very happy but I cautioned them that we are not together and we may not get back together. The oldest one is very happy and is just glad she is done with the scumbag.

I did mention transperancy with her today and she was in total agreement but again, that is the cart before the horse. She is going to block him from Facebook today .

I am going to go slow and she knows this in theory but needs to stop focussing on the OW so much. Again she compared her to herself and says she doesnt measure up.

She wanted to know about sex with her again and if she was better in the sack etc.. This is getting tiresome but I do understand her insecurities.

Okay, on with the day.

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