Major set back.

H and I went bowling with S3.

H accused me of interfering with his relationship with MIL. He said why do u call her. I said for support. And he said well maybe you should talk to your own family or counsellor. I said MIL called me too. He asked when the last the last time she called? I said I couldn't remember. He said that's because she doesn't. All this felt so hurtfull. I said well she texts me too. He said that's only to make sure you're ok. I started getting upset.

Things got really bad after that. We ended up having a
BIG fight. Lots of things said. He ends it by saying he's done. I say I don't care and we go our seperate ways.

Bad nite.

I will not be contacting MIL from now on. If she contacts I will tell her I will not speak to her about H. Yes for real this time. I'm done with that avenue. I still love her of course but discussing this situation with her has done more harm than good.

I am going to go dark on H. No more outings from now on. I really need to heal. I am not in a good mental state ATM. H said some really awefull things to me and I'm very upset tonite.


W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11