"Also, he said that it doesn't matter how much he loves someone, if they don't love him back, he needs to let go. Seriously, nobody should have to convince their partner to love them or stay with them, don't you think?"

How true. It is maddening to read all of the stories on this forum of LBS's (myself included) who still love their S's and are desperately trying to save their M's; yet their S's couldn't care less.

We all deserve better.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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