W didn't come bowling with us last night, didn't think W would, but bit annoyed as W only told D14 30min before we were due there, not for me but as I could have asked my brothers family to come, plus D14 wanted W there as this was her birthday event. Had a chat with D14 and she was OK, we had fun anyhow. D14 called W to ask why, and W said that it was too soon for us (Me and W) to get together as things were complicated!
I actually saw W about 4 or 5 time last week, with the last on Sat when she was asking me where I had been and who I had been with, but I was just coy and changed the subject. I did get the cell back from her which S12 now has and he is well chuffed.
I left her a vm message on Friday just clearing things off my chest, apologising for some things so I don't have to again.
Emailed W on Monday just saying about the bowling that I wanted to have fun with no arguing as kids were concerned, W replied with some stuff about not coming, about us and asked for my thoughts, which I replied it was her choice etc.
I also sent an email following this up to be absolutely clear. The main part was that I felt our problems were not insurmountable still (if still the same) and that we could have a better future together and as a family, but I accept her choice that W didn't want this, and I no longer wanted to discuss it.
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
