Stop the Coaster, I want OFF!

[ninelives]

Great advice everyone. I am overwhelmed with the support from everyone. I am drained as she just left to go sleep in her place.

ONe thing my brother in law brought up is that OM may be back to finish the job. Not likely but BIL was a cop for 30 years.

Said he has heard of cases where abusive spouse/BF comes back and kills the partner and then kills himself. That sure has me scared as he told her that if she ever left him , he would kill himself.

What a prick? God I dispise that piece O crap like nobody I have ever hated. From the bottom of my hater.

I cant believe we as a family are in a sitch that we have to be concerned about retribution from him.

She is so sorry about everything and feels like such a fool. She fell for his load of crap and despite what people were telling her, he is unstable and a low life. What else can you say about a man that beats up a woman. No excuses. When I found out about the affair she was having with him, I simply called her a bunch of names and left the area. I did not even think about hitting her.

We talked about things. She is concerned that he may commit suicide and she will feel responsible but I said to her, its not your fault, if it wasnt you it would have been somebody else.

I CANNOT believe this happened. Im in a state of shock, I cant imagine how my wife is feeling.

She is fixated on the OW. She keeps asking me questions about if I had sex with her and was she good and about her body parts ,,,,, etc...... I told her that I dont want to answer these questions. She is afraid that I will go on with OW.

I dont know what to say. I love my wife but I dont know for sure how this is going to turn out.

I told her that I need to be with someone that will LOVE me as I deserve to be loved. She says she can be that person.

Man what a clusterflick. I wanted her back so bad and now that it may happen, Im not sure if I do. NOt under the circumstances.

This is going to be a long, long process.

I will try and read up on all those things that she is going through.

Tired, need to sleep.

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