Hoping not to be a WAW

[25yearsmlc]

25yearsmlc

Yes, my outbursts have been increasing, unless you consider the last week or so, where I've been okay.

so on the whole you are NOT getting better...? Hmm.

Self-control at work, in the military, is fairly easy because there are consequences that generally can't be applied at home.

Ahh. So, hurting her, wounding her emotionally, and killing the love she once had for you is...what? "Inconsequential"?


However, my W is really hurt and has basically pushed the ball into my court. Either I fix the relationship or the ship sinks.

that's^^^ a consequence isn't it?

Why don't you apply your military discipline to how you act at home?

i don't think your problem is very complicated. Just Stop bullying your w.

Or admit that the m isn't that important to you.

I'm not convinced that you value her or the R, all that much.

I don't see evidence of it. I see mostly the opposite.

In fact, except for your words here, the only action I see is your repeating the very behavior that kills her love.