Hoping not to be a WAW

[MrBond]

"Yes, she is a great person. I know she's torn because she flops between emotions very quickly. Last night we were close, today she was happy, five seconds ago she accused me of playing with the computer's email history settings; it's a roller-coaster."

Have you noticed that you put the blame on your W for "making" you feel the way you do? Maybe her moods have been flipping because she's been dealing with your flips for so long. As far as I can tell, you're the one on the rollercoaster...not her.

"I know she's torn because she flops between emotions very quickly."

Mind reading. What if she said something like that about you? Would you like your spouse telling others how YOU feel? Stop talking about "her" issues/emotions/etc. And concentrate on your own.