Thanks guys. I haven't posted much lately because there really isn't much new with me. I continue to look for work. I spent 23 years on the radio and now I am finding that I'm not really qualified to do anything. I keep looking though.

Things are getting easier for me. I'm not as depressed and hung up on W as I was.

I would like to hear from the vets though because I've noticed a change in her. She had her surgery to end her monthly periods about three weeks ago. I've noticed the following changes in her in the last two weeks: She is being nicer to me. She has contacted my mom to let her know how her surgery went. She is not spending as much time with OM,but still communicates with him. She is more interested in our sons again. S18 even made the comment that she is starting to seem like her old self. She is checking out my Facebook page almost on a daily basis and even lookin at my friends' pages. She has asked questions about me.

Here is where I need help:

COULD SHE BE DIFFERENT BECAUSE OF HER SURGERY?

COULD SHE BE SOFTENING ME UP BECAUSE THE DIVORCE IS COMING UP?

IS SHE COMING AROUND?

COULD IT BE BECAUSE OF MEDICATION?

Trust me, things are still bad, but different. I've just noticed these things and thought that I would run it by the pros. What could it mean?

Thoughts?

Tad


Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13