So then perhaps it's good to slow things down and focus on one thing at a time. Because if you really believe the following:

Originally Posted By: Hoping 4AChance
Even if she does notice my changes and they are permanent. I do have the FAITH she will choose not to return to me.


What are you doing to return to the person you are?

How are you practicing on skills to make you "better", such as listening, communication and patience?

Try to be specific. List some actual ACTIONS that you are doing, which indicates these are things you are working on.