@mmf - You put that very well. It is too what I see in my position. I too see that the commitment is not only to each other but to God as well. A marriage is the mirror of the Trinity, three persons united as one.
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When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.