7 weeks to exH marries OW

[lea74]

kml: So been thinking about you said about starting a marriage know that they both cheat.

Well my xH doesnt think he cheated. In his mind we were seperated so that didnt count at cheating. What he forgets though is that one of the other reasons he left was because he was confused about he felt about her - he had been having a EA with her for about a year before that. Alot of secretative texting and very neccessary 'business' trips with her.

For the first 6 months of our seperation we were still very much together. He would stay over, we would have very flirtatious textings and even went on dates. I have since found out and via some information I gathered that he was with her at this time as well. Which means he was cheating on his girlfriend with his wife. So he is just one big fat CHEATER!! So some please explain to me why I still miss him and dont hate him as much as I should or are expected to. Why do I even care that he is getting married - in fact I should be relieved that he is not my problem anymore. (In fact my L says it is better for me that they are M so that he cant say he cant maintenance as he has two incomes now.)