Ok so from here on in forward, when my W drops a bomb (I hope no more), I will respond that I need some time to process what she has said and reflect before I respond. Then I will come here for advice.
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011