She certainly knows what buttons to push to get your goat.
As for the OM, I doubt she was going to tell him that she went willingly or that it was her decision.
As for her reaction, it does seem like she has feelings for you. A person does't normally react that poorly over someone they don't care about. But what tangled feelings she has.
Since you brought my name up ; )
I was...as dark as one can get with shared bills and two boys.
When she did come around, when I felt it was for real, the condition I put down for MY involvement was that the OM was out of her life. (It wasn't that easy, but that she was not initiating any contact and that she told me when he did...blah blah blah small print)
The potential problem I see 9, is even if she did come back giving up the OM (with small print attached) where does that leave your new girl? I am not judging you on this, not at all, and if anyone does I hope that your shoes fit them nicely on their walk. Your decision will be affected by her proximiety. (sp?)
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
