Everyone does so learn from it and DO NOT do it again.
Originally Posted By: Light
somehow we got talking about our R and I pressed her on why she felt the need to hide your cell phone, she denied it of course, so now she is aware of my awareness to it.
Originally Posted By: Light
W also said that she was not feeling as cherished in the last few weeks and that I had pulled away from her, which was part of the 180 I was trying out, can they react like this if they are really suffering MLC?
What you may see in the resources provided by Cadet is that they tend to want you “close”. I noticed that you have a teenager. Think about what and how a teenager acts…They want you but do not want you. MLC in my experience is the same. That said, the hardest thing to do at least initially is to detach and not take a lot of this personal.
Originally Posted By: Light
Maybe I have misunderstood the signs, the emails to/from other men, the evasiveness, lies, hiding cell phone, but then no list of my failings, not verbally hurtful to me or a desire to get out more with others ….
1) Stop looking at her and start looking at YOU 2) stop looking at her and start living for YOU 3) Stop looking at her. Oh…btw, did I mention stop looking at her? Light….keep reading the divorce remedy/divorce busting books as well as the resources. Read them a few time over. God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
