Definitely tougher MWG, good for you. There is no reason to be treated the way he treats you.
I'm honestly not sure why you are still M'd to him, but that's none of my business. Just curious is all.
I have had so much stress in my life the last 5+ years and continue to struggle with some health issues.
I weighed out the pros and cons and getting a D would cost me $$$ and I would get nothing out of it because he does not work. I want to keep my stress level lower than what it could be which isn't saying much.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19