I reacted out of emotion. It is pretty tough to have your spouse tell you they have been unfaithful.
Agreed it is tough hearing those words from your spouse. I have not personally been in that situation, but i can empathize.
But reacting to emotions is just going to make things worse for you.
Yup, a bomb like that can have an emotion. But how you react to it is under your control.
If this has just started for you, you might run into more issues down the lane. If you are done with the marriage and dont really care what happens to your or your marriage, then it is your choice. But if you use this as an opportunity to figure out what went wrong and honestly explore and figure out if your marriage can be salvaged, then do not become a slave to emotions. learn to control them and channel those feelings in a mature manner.
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