I have started to think that maybe my WAW has been trying to start arguments and trying to get a rise out me in an attempt to get me so mad that I will go off on her so that maybe she can justify some of her actions.
Although you can't make this assumption, this is some textbook WAW behavior. Pushing buttons on expecting a specific response. This is an opportunity to do a 180. Just be ready for it if it happens.
Originally Posted By: hollowed454
Still tempting to take the job where my wife works at just if nothing else they see that I'm not as horrible a person as she makes me out to be. That does drive me nuts. I won't though. for one it would be awkward and two I feel there's a 99.9% chance that is where the OM works as well.
This would be hoot. I can see the temptation, and it probably makes you feel better just by thinking about it. But don't take the job for this reason. It sounds like you're not 100% serious about taking it anyway.