Originally Posted By: seeking answers
A little different perspective here. My H's ow hates it when H spends time with his kids. She is very threatened by it. She does not want any part of H's past to interfere with their present.


Yes, this OW used to hate with a passion that he was spending time with the family and me! She does not really know me but hates my guts as well.

But that is all fixed now. He has no car that runs, I removed the ins. from the car because of that, he has not had a job in three years and he has no money. He is all hers now....goody for her!


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19