9, I just got caught up on all of this drama. Whew! It was entertaining in a twisted sort of way. I think it was the way you told it.
I'm always looking for the positives, and I saw that it sounds like she's observed some of the DB'ing you've been doing. Also, you at least KNOW she's not healthy. Hopefully she's getting the help she needs. It may take awhile for any meds to straighten her out.
It does sound like you were playing with fire and got burned.
I'm going to agree with the others. I think you two need to take a time out, i.e. no contact, and let the dust settle after this explosion.
