Well, he has not even been to the house in two years now and I have not seen him in one year. I just live my life (this does not mean dating and partying) and I have my friends and do things for me.
MY kids still have never met OW. My son, a few months ago, told his dad that he wanted to meet OW....there was every excuse given under the sun for my S not to meet her like, she is not feeling well, or I have to run it by her........my son just gave it up,
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Good heavens! MWG, I hate to even say it but it has become so blatant in the last 2 years especially that he has serious mental problems. It's so sad to hear about, especially with the way it hurts the kids.
He won't let his own kids meet the OW? How does he think that looks? Gee, is he ashamed of her or something?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I agree MWG, why wont he let the kids meet her? You would think she would want to meet them.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Good heavens! MWG, I hate to even say it but it has become so blatant in the last 2 years especially that he has serious mental problems. It's so sad to hear about, especially with the way it hurts the kids.
He won't let his own kids meet the OW? How does he think that looks? Gee, is he ashamed of her or something?
The strange thing about this is that my kids tell me he has sounded better in the last year then he has in a very long time because he cut out the alcohol. They said he sounds normal and he talks and makes much sense.
They tell me he dominates the conversations with discussions about the Bible and they just sit back and mainly listen to him talk.
What can I say? I am just telling you what my kids have told me.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, it does sound like he is embarassed of the OW or what he is doing or both.
Hi Mishka and kissak!
He knows he is guilty and yes, ashamed of what he is doing so much that he will not let them meet her.
I kind of think it is funny. Just goes to show this R would never last in the public eye since they have no money to do things.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Last week, my bedroom door was closed and my son asked why it was closed if I was in the living room and I teased and said I had someone in there. Boy, did he not like that!
H has had no contact with his family since his mom died in February.
He has only talked to our youngest once since that time but talks to the other two.
He does not like talking to the youngest because she does not put up with crap and tells it the way she sees it to him. She is almost 18 so it is not like he is talking to a small child. I am glad she says what is on her mind, though.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
A little different perspective here. My H's ow hates it when H spends time with his kids. She is very threatened by it. She does not want any part of H's past to interfere with their present.
A little different perspective here. My H's ow hates it when H spends time with his kids. She is very threatened by it. She does not want any part of H's past to interfere with their present.
Yes, this OW used to hate with a passion that he was spending time with the family and me! She does not really know me but hates my guts as well.
But that is all fixed now. He has no car that runs, I removed the ins. from the car because of that, he has not had a job in three years and he has no money. He is all hers now....goody for her!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
