Hate him. Tonight he posted a link to a song on Facebook. It's called Unsent Letter by Machine Gun Falletio. I clicked on the link - first comment was by him. It said I have finally broken out of my life's doom and gloom and now on my journey to having my special "one" in my life. This dong makes so much sense to me now.
So nice to know that my marriage has been all doom and gloom to him. My heart breaks for my kids. They are going to grow up without a father. He's only interested in seeing them once a fortnight. 26 times a year when they are used to seeing him everyday. Prick.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
I'm out of here. He's got a new girlfriend. It's been 5 weeks today. I really see no hope for him coming home and I need to accept that. Coming here is only giving me false hope.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
Finally got my divorce rememdy book today. I still don't see hubby every coming back, but I'm going to read it and continue my 180 and my GAL and who knows where I'll be in 6 months.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
So he's found a rental to live in - will be signing a six month lease. He's now buying second hand furniture for it. I can't believe at 34 after living a new house that we owned for 12 years, he can just walk away and start again from scratch. Is this really an affair fog or is he just that desperate to get away from me and the kids.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
Tis another new day. Feeling hopeful for my future. SIL told me last night that she told him what she thinks of him and he didn't like. That OW was using him for fun (as she has lots of issues with her ex) and that maybe when OW's x punches him in the head he might realise what a twat he is. I don't care anymore - I need to move on for me. Everytime I see him online, or buying furniture for his new pad it hurts. It's best I don't go searching for this and pretend he doesn't exist. He hasn't contacted his kids in a week (he only wants to see them every second weekend) and I've had no contact since Thursday with him. I actually prefer it this way - out of sight out of mind.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
I'm back. My husband is madly in love with OW. They spend as much time as possible with each other. They work all day with each other as well (they sit about a metre away from each other). I found out that he's taken her to his parents for lunch on a few occasions. They have accepted her into their house - after I was their daughter in law and mother to their grandkids for 14 years. I am having as little contact as possible with my husband. His ow still had me as a friend on facebook until earlier this week. I had a minor accident in my car on the weekend and posted about it on facebook. I'm sure she told him. He emailed me to make sure we were ok. I wrote back and said all was fine - thanks for your concern. Again the other day he emailed me to find out what time to pick the kids up this weekend. He asked again about my car but I didn't reply to him about it - he left - it's non of his business. I don't go asking him questions about his life anymore. I just wish time would go faster. I worry that there relationship won't die. I'm trying my best to get a life but it's hard.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
Not sure that's what you want to hear. Or need to hear. But you H is a scumbag...
You are a young woman. Stay happy. Full of life. There are good men out there. GREAT MEN!!!
Keep your heart warm.
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
I want the man I married back. My heart is broken. I understand why he feels the way he does. He thinks the love is gone from our marriage. She has talked his ear off at work until she convinced him he wasn't happy. They now think they are both madly in love. He's doing crazy things like changing his Facebook relationship status to in a relationship with her only 3 weeks after leaving me! My heart hurts so much. I know he's been manipulated and she is using him. I just feel so hurt and lonely.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
