Just popped in and saw your thread and wondered how things were going with you and your husband.
I'm not really up to speed with all that has transpired over the past year, so I won't say much.
Just this...
What I remember about your husband and his behavior is that he absolutely HATED the thought that you might finally be done with him. You involved with some other male was NOT something he liked thinking about.
Unless my memory fails, he always seemed to reach out to you in some way whenever he thought this was happening.
I only point this out to remind you to be careful with your heart.
I see a familiar pattern in the conversation you had with your husband.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."