One thing I have learned here after 6 years is that in EVERY case where someone has a gut feeling that there is OP, there ALWAYS is. So...evidence aside, does your intuition tell you there is? If so, be fully prepared that there is. And as Starsky said, cheaters lie. They all lie. Always. Once they cheat, lying is no big deal. If they can justify cheating, they can justify anything and everything else.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.