Sorry, but that's just more passive-aggressive b.s., Nine. You either COMPLETELY PURSUE or, your you just say "F it -- I'm done."
If that's what you truly want, that's fine -- you'd certainly be justified. But I think you still love your wife, and I think she still loves you. Saying she's "never loved you," as you know, is just b.s. re-writing of marital history, and you know that, if you've done any studying of infidelity (have you??).
This is still very much save-able, Nine, but that's up to you. I'd suggest that you do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING for 30 days, if you can pull it off. Cool off, think, pray if you're so inclined. Nothing good, decision-wise, can come out of a place of such hot emotion.
