I should not have initiated the ML thing today. Got caught up and really didnt think she would.
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Yes, you always seem to "get caught up." So does your wife. You two are toxic toward each other, at least in the way you interact. VERY reactive; VERY passive-aggressive.
The best thing the two of you could do would be to take six months, apart, and really use the time for IC and to learn and grow, on your own. No one (or two, or even four or five) mistakes DBing will kill it, that's the beauty -- its resilience. But you DON'T get to have 15 or 20 chances, emotionally just reacting and doing the same wrong things over and over and over again, lamely stating "Well, I felt that ..."
