"In all fairness and respect to your husband, tell me about OM and show the note I found."
That statement will do nothing more than turn her off. It makes you look weak & preachy to a WAW in an A.
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I want to give W the opportunity to tell the truth and also to see the reaction in her eyes from the question all while remaining calm.
An opportunity? Every single day has been an opportunity to tell the truth. You are wanting to see her break down crying with remorse and pleading for your forgiveness.
At best, she will admit the EA.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
