I have sent the one series of texts yesterday only when my W admitted to the affair. I think it was justified concidering the situation. It also set some boundries.
So, in spite of the advise from people here, you sent it anyway. A "series" of texts?
The point is not about justification, Johnnie. Sure, it was justified, but you did not help your stitch. If you had waited out this week until you talked to your Pastor, therapists, etc., and give her time to wonder about you....but now she is shrugging her shoulders and saying, "It figures".
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
