I can't even finish reading the thread....Literally
and btw, I never said "forgiveness is unconditional", not b/c I don't believe it
but b/c I'm not sure what it means.
I say forgiveness (letting go) is essential to US being happy, (with or without the spouses...)
SIGH...
Your w has the strongest case of projection I've seen...maybe, ever....
oh, and she's a hypocrite. A hypocrite with nerve, and a foul mouth...
(does she kiss your kids' goodnight with that mouth?)
Stop the contact, or be as wacky as she sounds. Don't get contaminated by these interactions, or you'll never have a healthy loving woman in your life.
We (yes WE, we "healthy loving" women) don't like crazy drama in our love lives.
That's what we have wacky friends and cool jobs for...
Just - DO NOT ENGAGE WITH HER...SHE'S NOT WELL
AND YOU WON'T BE WELL EITHER, IF YOU KEEP ON TALKING TO HER
ANYONE WHO SLEEPS WITH OM FOR OVER A YEAR
AND THEN GIVES YOU CRAP FOR TAKING A WOMAN ON A BOAT W/Your son, ( as if sonS would NEVER meet OW
b/c you'd never have another woman in your life again??) IS AT LEAST A LITTLE BIT NUTS...Leave it at that...
am I being clear?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016