Yes I feel very stupid right now. Everyone had already told me to stop talking to my MIL but like you 25, I also thought that perhaps I had it wrong and she was an ally. Seems that she is only when it suits her. Who knows what her intention really is. I still believe that it is good but perhaps she goes about it the wrong way???
H confessed last Christmas that he kissed a girl at work once. This happened a couple of years ago before S3 was born. It was the same scenario, felt sorry for this girl at work. She was hopeless and he was trying to be the hero. I have told him this before but not sure he has really taken it in.
I forgave him for this and we moved on, until this happened 3 months ago. I have since found out that they started their emotional affair since December last year. She knew he was married with a child and didnt care. Infact she went after him. Ive read alot of their emails & sms. She is bipolar and from what I can tell has BPD (borderline personality disorder) but I am not a professional, I am only going by her actions and what H has told me. In his own admissions she is crazy. But he too is obviously crazy for being with her.
We've been married for nearly 7 years. Been together for 11 yrs. I was 20 when we first met. He suffered depression but I didnt know it at the time. He was in trouble when I first met him. Failing uni and didnt have much money. I pretty much got his life into order and have encouraged & supported him to who/where he is now. I helped pay for his accomodation, bought text books, bought him a car, food etc. As you can imagine we became very co-dependant.
In a way I saved him. So maybe he wants to do the same to someone else?
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
