RNP, Use this as a lesson learned. Stop talking to your MIL about your H and anything that H has told you. Blood is thicker than water and if you want to stay in your MIL good graces, and even if you don't, it is wise to zip your lip.
If you should reconcile with your H you don't want any issues that would pit you against your MIL, and force your H to choose between the two of you.
Use the utmost discretion with anything you say to MIL that involves your H and or them.
THIS ^^^^^ is right on...no more MIL heart to hearts. You can be pleasant and encourage her having time with her grandson
but you cannot use HER to get H to change..
Red, going back, did your h have other affairs?
(I'm asking to refresh my memory not rehash the past)
How long is the m also? And his age? Thanks
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016