starsky,

I didnt push that conversation with her. She said she wants to come home. i left it at that.

the only reason i got her to consider this was by offering her to live at home, and keep her private life. the older kids know that if im still driving her and letting her have visits at home, then she said she is coming home to me.

She did have a basic talk with them today after their dentists appointment. She came out to soccer for s9 tonight.

im sure she isnt ready to give up the OM, but she is pulling herself apart about disappointing her kids and her family.

some people may think i have been a total moron during this process, but i am trying to leave the door open. Just getting her back into the house is half the battle.

Our separation agreement stays intact and she still keeps accumilating child support. So i am protected financially if she comes home.

i am not talking about this with anyone, only on here. let her tell the kids, then if she doesnt come home, its on her.


M-34, W-33
SS14, SS13, S8, D6