I went out many times without her knowing where... I GAL...
I went to the movies several times alone, went to work out...
Anything I could do to show her that my life would go on without her...
At one point early on she asked the following...
"Please tell me if you are seeing someone else so I can do the same."
It pi$$ed me off thy she said that but I knew what I was doing was working...
It's time to live for you J1...
It will not be easy but it is doable...
As far as keeping your sanity, it's no easy... I went on meda for 3 days before deciding that she wasn't worth it... I tossed them in the trash and never took another...
Its about controlling yourself and not letting someone else control you...
There was a time that you didnt know her... That you didn't need her...
Find that man, and be that man!!
Do it for yourself!!!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
