J1,
Stop looking for answers... You've set your boundary... Now all you can do is wait.

You will not get answers! Not now...

DUDE, I'VE BEEN THERE... ITS KILLING YOU LIK IT DID ME!!!

BUT YOU MUST STOP TEXTING!!!

Everything you do appears weak... I know I know, it's killing you...


Even the tone in her texts tells me that she is not swayed by your pleas...


You've set your boundary and you've shown strength in doing so...

Now it's time to WAIT an act "as if"...

It's your only chance dude!!!

PLEASE STOP ANY AND ALL COMMUNICATION!!!

You have a chance, but continued pressure will blow it...

I know your pain... Youre looking for something, anything to hold on to! You will not find hope right now so stop asking her for it...

STOP STOP STOP!!!


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012