Wow.

Well - did you feel like there was more honesty in the communication?

Those texts are amazing - there are some who would say 'don't tolerate it' or whatever. I get that - set boundaries about respect - but, if you can confront it without taking any of it personally, then you can get an interesting view into what the other person is dealing with in themselves. Might offer some new information for you.

I don't know - I don't think you should really go hard on yourself about any of it. You're human, you do your best..

I'm sure you will reflect and work out the things you would have preferred to do differently for your circumstances.

If your W is seriously bi-polar, its good that you know.


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.