Back off or you will push her further away than she already is and possibly into a deeper relationship with OM.
Listen to what she is saying to you. Listen to what Sandi is saying to you from your W's perspective.
BACK OFF! At least for a few days at the minimum. You asked for what you wanted again. Now give it some time and leave her alone. Repetition and pressure is not going to make her change her mind right now and it will WASTE your emotional energy.
And texting her only? Punitive IMO. WTF Johnnie? Be a man who is confident in his actions and knows what he wants. Be someone one who is in control of his emotions and radiate confidence. Let her feel safe that your not going to ram this down her throat every freaking day. Time is what you need right now. Focus on you and become someone she is stupid to leave. Your "words" right now are not benefiting your goals.
You said you had meetings coming up with your Priest, Therapist, etc. How bout you don't say anything again to her until at LEAST you have talked to them? Can you make it that long at least?
