BITS, Thank you for your words. I want so much to believe all that you wrote. Im sorry you are in the same situation. It is hell. I just wanted a chance to see if anything is salvageable in our marriage but wasn't given the chance. He just left after being caught having an A. He will admit no wrong doing. It is all my fault according to him. I just dont know what to do. The sadness and hurt is unbearable right now.
